e-Live Motivation: 2009/04

If you are master of your destiny?

18 April 2009 di Sabtu, April 18, 2009 Diposting oleh Ary Nanda

How strong are you?

I am not asking you if you can be 150 lbs. by weight. I am, after notice is your strength. How resilient are you to stick to his dreams of rabies among the forces of discouragement and criticisms?

There are too many people who have never experienced the joy of achieving their desires because other people have influence (and sometimes even negative), their important decisions.

Are there examples in your life when others say you are not your plans, because they were never gonna work? What did you do? Have you or your desires, you have only their command?

If you are in other beliefs and attitudes, even if they are unlike you, you just torture. It's like if you do not have a sense of itself. You're like a shadow, after moving to another.

You can listen to advice from others, but let their control. If you have any tips to help your success and well-being, at least follow. But if you and she would have lost close to what you want in life, then you need to have a heart and your expectations.

Of course, it is critical. But if you can still be avoided, it will never be truly happy.

As a famous person said: "It is a safe way to criticism, do nothing and nothing. This solution is again and again." That's true.

Take my case.

When I first years at school, my father wanted me to get my course on physical therapy, because they are in demand in the United States at this time. But I would like to begin my studies in accounting. I held in my decision, and after some negotiations finally in.

Then there is my love life. Chinese tradition says that the Chinese people to marry their own kind (no offense) But I'm crazy in love with this Filipino girl. Despite all the criticism, discouragement, and harsh words (pardon me), I defended my love for her. Currently, we are strong and my family respected my decision.

You see, when I checked it, can easily be incorporated into each of the two scenarios, I was stripped of the joy and satisfaction in my life.

Sometimes, other words like a knife. But never deterred. Listening to the voice inside you. We will never be able to all because each of us is unique. We have our own characteristics and values. Respect for others opinion, should be maintained.

With this said, I want out of this last message, which summarizes all. Follow your heart and happiness will follow.

Use Language Non-verbal People with Autism in Children

13 April 2009 di Senin, April 13, 2009 Diposting oleh Ary Nanda

I am a teacher and I have recently, with the support of one of these workshops is to improve the quality of teaching methods. I am the mother of two young children with autism. My oldest is a boy of 5 years and non-verbal communication, because not more than six words of his life. "Mama" was said for the first time about a year ago when he was 41 / 2 years. I can not describe how this moment was magical. I continue to enjoy whenever he decides.

Sometimes, teachers must learn a few things!

In this workshop, we are studying several possibilities, how a person learns new information. Some are visual and learning, with illustrations, drawings, photographs, etc. Others are manipulative to understand new concepts. There are eight types of learning styles. One of them reads: 'verbal'. This type of treatment in writing and orally with materials such as books, essays, etc. One of the statements that: "More people themselves verbally, how they are easily and their knowledge about their writing skills. "

I was burning inside. It is, if I shared my feelings and my experiences with my son with my colleagues. It opens a new door for me when I realized that the issue contained in the human mind is: "Autism: How do you communicate with a non-verbal children?"

Then I decided that some information on my experience as a mother of a non-verbal child is autistic spectrum disorders.

A little personal history of my son nonverbal

My son is a non-verbal, because his vocabulary contains about six words, especially when frustration sets in, especially if the message is not understood by the person who communicates with him at that time. Physically, he is able to speak, as he is able to pronounce words, but for some unknown reason he is unable to communicate with others.

Doctors have said that 50% chance of one day record that in some cases, non-verbal children with autism will start talking at the age of 5-8 years. Some children have even started to speak, only 13 years.

If he does not speak, without any frustration, his words are said in a voice so low, it is often difficult to understand or hear, or not at all. As a parent, you sometimes feel you've heard, but you can not believe what you want to hear, not reality. Sometimes the case, but you will never know.

Communication with a non-verbal children

So how we deal with our son? Well, we have a variety of techniques. For example, in some cases we use objects that are either him or vice versa. If he wants a sandwich, he brings the container to jam with us. If he wants the remote control, it leads us to time, our hands and go to it. When asked to choose between different options, we will consider its response to each. If it is excited, his body language is the positive reaction of jumping up and down, a fleet of hand a big smile. If the answer is negative, is angry, immediately press the end of it, and sometimes he will even cry.

What are the other possibilities, that we use for communication? Well, we use a little of the language, Pecs, objects and observing their reactions and a lot of advice he gives us, as his body, his voice, his tone, the expression on his face , and gestures that made us like ours, hands on his head under pressure to communicate that he has a headache. Another thing that we keep track of his routine, and the slightest change in May is responsible for its sudden emergency.

Lack of information can lead to difficult and subjective responses

Today I went to the hairdresser. The hairdresser told me earlier, they cut hair, an autistic child. She said she thought it was "normal" that he said he has ASD. Then she said that all children with ASD, it was "a bit behind mentally." I was so shocked, hurt and angry that I even considered, but abandoned in the process of a haircut, I do not want to leave, with half of them finished.

I told him that it is wrong that all people with ASD have been provided by a delay in mental development. I also explained that at the workshop, I was told that someone of non-verbal communication and not after them, they automatically from psychological problems. I explained that non-verbal does not mean that someone can not effectively their ideas and knowledge.

Knowledge is a non-verbal children

As parents, I am hurt and often feel frustrated by the misconceptions that people have autism. At school, my son is different, but it still surprises the school with him about his knowledge. Here he is using the computer efficiently, it may be later in life in May to contact us if there is still non-verbal.

Autism is often misunderstood

Often people do not understand the frustration of a non-verbal communication. Well, suppose you visit a country where you are unable to communicate with people in their own language. Would you not be frustrated after a while? Well, how it feels to live like that everyday!

If people ask you in the future: "How can you communicate with a non-verbal child?" You may have an answer to his question, but also to raise the disclosure of certain information, such as autism is often not known, even by the school.

When the Adults Suffering from Depression

06 April 2009 di Senin, April 06, 2009 Diposting oleh Ary Nanda

Market research for women, men and depression suggest an estimated 4.4 million Americans who suffer from chronic treatment-resistant depression. Depression is a chronic, disorder off and the main public health problem worldwide. Depressive episodes are usually repeated over time, the risk for further episodes proportionally to the number of previous episodes. After three major depressive episodes, the likelihood of repetition is 90%. Only in the United States, approximately 18 million people suffer from depression than six million, who receive some kind of treatment.

Market studies on women, men and depression and the evaluation of more than 100,000 Americans each year are treated with electro convulsive therapy (etc.) for depression. Approximately 15% of all people with severe depression, requiring hospitalization suicide. Disorders related to men and depression is very expensive. Depression was assessed as the second major cause of disability worldwide in 1990. Depression costs the U.S. alone is estimated to exceed 50 billion dollars annually, including more than 12 billion dollars in direct costs of treatment. The total market in the United States on anti-DEPRESSANTS is estimated to exceed 6 billion dollars.

Some general factors May be related to women, men and depression, but the exact cause of the depressive disorder is unknown, although both biological abnormalities and psychological factors are considered precipitate this disease. Reduce the synaptic concentration of neurotransmitters, particularly serotonin and noradrenalin, is involved in the pathogenesis of depression. Most of the current standard treatment in terms of man and thought that depression affects either one or both of these neurotransmitter systems (1) drugs SSRI (serotonin specific refund inhibitors) or (2) MAOI drugs (monoamine oxidase inhibitors), which reduce the breakdown of serotonin and norepinephrine . It is interesting that some antiepileptics compounds such as carbamazepine, valproate and lamotrigine, are used as mood stabilizers, and that lamotrigine and gabapentin are also used as antidepressants.